Feb 7, 2015

Signs that your girlfriend is cheating on you.

Hello guys!!!
Am about to leak the secret of some of your girlfriends that are cheating and getting away with it, and also trying to play you for a fool.
But before then I would like us to really talk about the kinds of cheating that we girls engage in.
Flirt cheating
FWB cheating
Fling cheat
In most relationships today, cheating is not really a big deal as some people tagged their relationship
Open relationship, open  relationship is one in which both parties are allowed to cheat, double date and haven other partners, also due to some personal/ emotional reasons, some girls engage in friends with benefit and cheat on their bf with their friend or maybe male best friends. In some other  instances, people cheat without even intending to do it and we can also call that a “fling”. Whichever way t is done, a cheat is a cheat and when she tries to play smart with it, I think the guy should play smart too.
  1.  She Deletes Her Messages: yes! Don’t be deceived when you check your girlfriend’s phone and you don’t find any message except the ones from network providers. She deletes the messages she sent to you, or the ones you sent to her. She moves them to archives or draft. Guy if you see any of this, then you should being suspicious. Though on very exceptional cases, she might have genuine reasons for deleting them.
  2. She becomes sausy and rude: This is one of the most important sign to look out for in a cheating girlfriend. If she is naturally sausy, it’s a different ball game; you two can work it out. But if all of a sudden, the good, homely, obedient sweetheart becomes suasy, then you should start asking questions.
  3. She suspects unnecessarily: it is normal for a girlfriend to show signs of jealousy, or a bit of insecurity sometimes, when you give her a cause to, but once your girlfriend begins to show the earlier stated signs and then questions you or suspevts yor every move, she might be doing it for you not to see her own evil act or to divert the suspicion form her to you. You ain’t no fool bruh.
  4. She becomes super obedient: this is a two way thing. In the early stages 0of her cheating, your girl might want to hide her escapades by trying to be the obedient fool, or she might just be doing it out of guilt. But even at the “obedience”, she still finds her way out of being with you. There’s always an excuse to be somewhere else.
  5. Divided Attention: some girls are smart enough to keep two relationships, but if you’re the one she’s cheating on, the full attention she was giving you will reduce, because she would be too into the new guy and you’ll find out your ever present girlfriend is no longer around most of the time. Some girls would still play two guys and be at the top of their game.
  6. Boring Sex: she begins to deny you of sex, (she can’t wait for you to be done, even if she allows). You would keep longing and begging for sex. The variety of positions stop and you might be restricted to just one position (mostly missionary).  
  7. She has other guy’s messages on her phone: Some girls would claim the other guy is just asking her out and she has not agreed. This might be ttrue, but it may be the same thing she’s telling the other guy when he sees your messages.
NOTE: that she denies you of sex doesn’t necessarily mean she’s cheating, but if it’s glaring she’s getting it somewhere else, then brows should be raised.

Bro, when your girlfriend’s sentences are conflicting, she passwords her phone (very tight password that she’s not telling you), she starts visiting uncles and aunts in unknown places, and shows any of the signs mentioned before, you have the right to ask her about it. If she doesn’t give a satisfactory explanation, you have the right to walk away if you cannot cope with it.



                                                                                          

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