Feb 4, 2015

Love Sex and Emotions

Love is beautiful. Sex is important. Emotions are abstract and cannot be controlled. Funny as it may sound; people mix these three entities up a lot of times.
While love and emotions may not be separable, love and sex are totally different, but then, sex and emotions……..I think they’re totally different too.
Stories of many people’s experiences have shown that, emotions do not necessarily lead to love. Have you wept while seeing a movie before? Or have you felt the pain when a dog gets knocked down by a car? Those are your emotions.
Feeling happy or sad about something happening, that’s emotion. It’s a sign of love – the love the scriptures preach- (buh you sabi the kind love wey I dey talk for here na). Emotions may grow into love, but they are totally different entities in my opinion.
Now, input sex. People, especially girls (with due respect) often mix things up when it comes to these three subjects. I stand to be corrected, sex is physical (plainly physical). The physical (sexual) way of expressing love/emotions is what they call love making (otherwise, the slang is shagging).
How good you feel about the sex is a function of how skillful he/she is in bed, or how your partner allows you to fulfill your fantasy. It’s not because the sex made you love them more (some people love because of sex sha oo). A very skillful sex worker that allows you fulfill your fantasies will keep you wanting more, and it doesn’t mean you love/have emotions for them.
Do not misunderstand me ooo, continuous physical contact (not necessarily sex) may lead to growing emotions or ultimately love, but we need to understand that these three are totally different things.
It is very important to understand the concept behind these things. How they are related and how different they are from one another. Mixing them up at times lead to sending wrong  signals or unwanted moves which might end up in hurt and heartbreak.
(The topic is very controversial, and your opinion may differ from mine, so please use d comment box)

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