These may mean your partner is cheating.....Watchout

Many of us do suspect our partners to be cheating on us, and we are always looking for that chance to catch them red handed. Well, some cheating partners are so smart; you’ll never find them beside that girl/guy they are cheating with. Here are just a few things that will suggest your partner is most probably cheating.

1. He tells you he isn't really ready for a relationship early on. Yet he acts in a way that makes you think he’s serious. You just keep it on cos he is handsome and fun to be with, thinking one day he’ll change and realize you’re the one

2. He passwords almost every folder on his tab, except the ones that involve you. That way you can't see his texts o any other things that may rouse any questions.

3. He takes his phone with him every time he goes to the restroom.
4. He has more female friends than you do, and he only has a few guy friends.
5. You haven't met a lot of his friends even though you go out with him a lot. Not even when you go to his place
6. His phone battery seems to die more than the average person’s.
7. He gives you just enough attention to keep you around but not enough to actually move forward in your "relationship."
9. He always has a reason why you can’t meet up with him. Like he's "not sure when he’ll be off work” or “he’s hanging out with guys”
10. He stops making the sexy moves.
11 He calls himself a “loner” frequently, my sister it’s time to take a walk
12. He’s a bad communicator, and takes very long to text you back. He’s probably texting your rivals.
13. He agrees to plans you make together, but occasionally backs out later
14. He lies about almost everything, even the most inconsequential things, and later tells you he’s just pulling your legs.
15. He has a lot of numbers in his phone that aren’t saved with names (or are saved with strange names). You can bet those numbers chat with him in a flirty manner.
16. You find scandalous texts on his phone like “Yesternite was awesome sweetie” “You at home baby?
17. He freaks out when you pick his phone just to check the time and he later gives you dumb excuses like “phones are really personal”. Are you not his personal person?
18. Lastly , if you notice any of these things or any other things that make you uncomfortable, you calmly and politely approach your partner about it and he or she lashes out at you, or makes you feel insecure. This is because he/she is deflecting.


Most importantly, a good relationship is built on understanding your partner and talking things out. So, don’t jump into conclusion after noticing one or two signs, but if it’s getting to like four five, Omo na time to pack your load ooo, to avoid impending heartbreak.