Before going on a date,women wear their smartest outfits, put on the finest
makeup and try their best to look as gorgeous as possible, to woo their men.
And let us be real, who does not like to be floored with compliments? But,
sometimes there are things that women do unconsciously, that turn men off.
The girl might think that she looks really cute, but those things can actually
turn a guy off. Here is a list of seven most common mistakes made by most
women, which in reality, are not cute at all.
#1. The Donald Duck pout
The selfie fever is definitely in vogue. And, for some reason, while taking a
selfie, women feel the need to pout. The pout might suit some, but not all,
and that too, only while taking the picture. If you pout your lips after each
sentence you speak, you are certainly not going to see your date after
tonight. So, go easy on the pout, and be your natural self.
# 2. The baby talk
Women always complain about men being like little kids, just refusing to grow
up. Then why do they indulge in ‘baby talk’ with their guy? Words like,
‘Shona’, ‘Babu’, ‘Chocopiee’, batting eyelids, and talking like a school girl can
put men off! God has given you a nice voice, so let him hear the real you, and
not your cartoon version.
# 3. Drinking more just to show off
If you are a regular drinker, you develop a certain capacity to drink. It is only
when you cross that limit that you cannot walk straight. But many women
drink to impress their dates. They think men will be awed by the fact that
they have a massive capacity. What they do not realise is that men can make
out in a jiffy how uncomfortable the drink is making you, just by looking at
your face. So, act like a lady! Order a drink, something that you are
comfortable with. Getting high after drinking and doing crazy things later, will
make your guy lose respect for you.
# 4. Flirting with his friends
Don’t be under the impression that flirting with his friends while you are out
in a group will make him jealous, and he will feel more attracted towards you.
Rather, if he is sensible enough, he will not like to interact with you anymore.
# 5. Perfume attack
When you wear perfume before going on a date, it is for your guy and not
for the entire restaurant to smell. If a guy cannot hold you close to him,
without his nose getting blocked with the perfume overdose, he may not
want to hold you at all.
#6. Makeup overdose
Makeup does enhance a woman’s beauty, but an overdose of it can make
you look gothic instead of pretty. Be natural and go light on the makeup.
Let him know and like the real you, not the masked woman.
# 7. Unnecessary dirty talk
If you are in a very serious relationship with your guy, talking dirty with him,
can sometimes be sensual. But, if you have just met the guy or are with his
group of friends, talking dirty can send across the wrong message. Some
things look and sound cool only in privacy, and only with a person with
whom your comfort level is at its peak.
#8. Pressing phone and chatting.
As a lady, when you are on a date courtesy demands that you don't keep pressing your phone and chatting. Even when you are not on a date, When you are with your man, please give him enough attention else he would definitely get it elsewhere.
So, in case you are doing all or some of the above mentioned things, it is
quite possible that you might send the man of dreams running away in the
other direction. Keep it real girls, and that is what will really attract a guy
towards you.
Post by Oni Oluwabusayo
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